PERSONAL EXPERIENCES

What are transformative & extra-ordinary experiences?

Transformative Spiritual, Extra-ordinary and Anomalous Experiences have been reported throughout the human history (Pasulka, 2019) and are more common than we may think (Rabeyron, 2022; Ross & Joshi, 1992).

Three in Four (North) Americans believe in paranormal (Moore, 2005).

I believe it is essential to offer support and understanding to those who have had them. With continued research and study, we may gain a better understanding of the nature and significance of these experiences in our lives. More importantly, find ways to integrating them into our daily live, using practical strategies.

According to scientific research, anomalous experiences are those that fall outside the commonly accepted definition of reality shared by individuals, cultures, and time periods. These experiences are diverse and ever-evolving, from spiritual epiphanies to vivid lucid dreams, there are numerous human experiences that can be classified as extraordinary and anomalous.

How does the American Psychological Association (APA) classifies these experiences?
The American Psychological Association (APA) classification below may or may not include a category where you feel your experience falls within:

* Synesthesia
* Lucid Dreaming
* Out-of-body experiences (OBEs)
* Anomalous Self and Identity Experiences
* Alien Abduction Experiences
* Encounters with non-human entities (NHEs)
* Psi-Related Experiences
* Anomalous Healing Experiences
* Past-Life Experiences
* Near-Death Experiences
* Mystical Experience

‌If your experience does not fall under the category above, it does not mean it is not real or did not happen. This means there is no category yet to describe it in this association.

The American Psychological Association (APA) has recognised that anomalous and transformative spiritual experiences can have a significant impact on individuals’ lives. These experiences can challenge our understanding of reality and lead to transformative changes in beliefs, attitudes and behaviours.

There is a need for further research and understanding of their nature and significance and developing practices to assist people going through these changes. By acknowledging and studying these experiences, psychologists and researchers can gain valuable insights into the human mind and the nature of consciousness.
How do I work with individuals with these experiences? ‌
I would take the following three steps at the pace that is comfortable for you:

1. Discovery & familiarisation session: 2 hours (1 session) or 2 sessions of 1 hour each.

2. Deep dive into integration practice: 6−8 hours (3−4 sessions)

3. Develop personal strategies for the future (2 hours per session), for example, you may wish to develop your own:
* Integrating practices through guided breathing. Breathing is always available to us & a helpful tool that is always with us
* Exit strategies from unwanted experience
* Ways to become more and more aware during the experience
* Navigation strategies within the experience
* Plans for something you wish you could do before, during or after the experience

4. Integrate extraordinary experiences in to your everyday life.

1 hour = £200 GBP

Contact me via a button below on this page to enquire how I can help.
What would you recommend to read on this topic?
References & further information:

* Pasulka, D. (2018). American Cosmic: UFOs, Religion, Technology. Oxford University Press.

* Rabeyron, T. (2022). When the Truth Is Out There: New Perspectives on UFOs and the Paranormal. Frontiers in Psychology, 12, 831437. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.831437

* Ross, C. A., & Joshi, S. (1992). Paranormal experiences in the general population. Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease, 180(6), 357−361. https://doi.org/10.1097/00005053-199206000-00007

* Moore, D. W. (2005). Three in four Americans believe in the paranormal. Gallup News. https://news.gallup.com/poll/16915/three-four-americans-believe-paranormal.aspx

* Pargament, K. I., Mahoney, A., Exline, J. J., Jones, J. W., & Shafranske, E. P. (2013). Envisioning an integrative paradigm for the psychology of religion and spirituality. American Psychologist, 68(5), 438−446. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0037258
https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/features/rel-a0037258.pdf

* Cardeña, E., Lynn, S. J., & Krippner, S. (Eds.). (2014). Varieties of Anomalous Experience: Examining the Scientific Evidence, Second Edition. American Psychological Association. https://doi.org/10.1037/14259-000
https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/4316157?tab=2

* Fradera, A. (2018). Parapsychology has been unfairly sidelined, claims new review of the field. British Psychological Society.
https://www.bps.org.uk/research-digest/parapsychology-has-been-unfairly-sidelined-claims-new-review-field


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PILOT WITH UAP EXPERIENCES

The benefit of sharing your UAP story:

Before diving ‌into a larger study (see below), I would like to hear from willing pilots & ATCOs who wish to share a personal story. 

‌I am offering free 15-min on-line meetings with me to begin to understand your personal journey, provided you may in the future wish to share your story in a book. 

‌The aim of the book is to share with professional observers, such as pilots, ATCOs & astronauts, the variety of encounters, the challenges faced, the personal transformation taking place & the impact it has on one’s life. This is all in hope for professional observers to recognise similarities in their personal encounters, own life journey & release the pressure of stigma around UAP topic & most importantly - not to feel alone & not suffer in silence & be part of growing community wishing to understand what is happening. Why is the phenomena often affecting us one or two at a time?

‌Please see my talk at the SOL Foundation Initiative for UAP Research and Policy symposium at the Stanford University, November 2023 (see video below). In fact, I encourage you to see all the talks to see how much willingness & steps are taken by professionals to pull the resources & skills together to understand the phenomenon. 
  • SOL FOUNDATION
    for UAP Research and Policy
    At the Inauguration Symposium at Stanford University, 17−18 November 2023,
    Iya presented the talk:

    “OBSERVATION is DATA:
    Trusting & Learning from Pilots”
We will never pass on your data. We will only use your data for intended purposes to inform you about the study.
The objective of the larger study:

Prevent adverse pilot reactions that can compromise safety of the pilot, crew, passengers, aircraft and the surrounding environment.

‌Below Iya is discussing with Ryan Graves on MERGED podcast why these studies are important to run now.

‌Ryan Graves is a former Lt. U.S. Navy and F/A-18F pilot, who was the first active duty pilot to come forward publicly about regular sightings of UAP, and has been featured in 60 minutes, the History Channel and The New York Times. He currently serves as the first Chair of the American Institute of Aeronautics and Astronautics (AIAA) Unidentified Aerospace Phenomena Community of Interest (UAPCOI), representing more than 30,000 members of the aerospace industry concerned with improving aviation safety. Iya also serves on UAPCOI as the Aviation and Space Psychologist, in a Human Factors division advising of the impact UAP encounters.
We will never pass on your data. We will only use your data for intended purposes to inform you about the study.

Iya Whiteley (PhD)

  • ... FROM AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER
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